i have a serious question. would y’all rather someone come in to your life and befriend you when you’re sad/going through something/at your lowest, or when things are going well and you’re generally content with everything? and why?

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2. prettypattie said: And also, I feel like since they met me when I wasn’t my best, they’re more trustworthy?
3. prettypattie said: Preferably my lowest, because being sad doesn’t last forever and when I do feel better, it’s like an upgrade!
4. howelljenkins said: damn i meant highest not lowest i’m a m e s s
5. howelljenkins said: at my lowest bc personally the people i befriended at my lowest we’re usually pretty low too?? and after she got better she basically abandoned me so i was like her emotion dump and i wouldn’t want to do that to anyone else and i feel like the friends i make when i’m feeling good are pretty solid and stick by me
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   definitely at my lowest. all the people i befriended before didn’t have my back when i was going through a rough time...

10. gothgfs said: i like it when people befriend me when im doing well because i have more energy to get to know them but if they stay when things get bad i know theyre true friends
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12. 2281 said: tbh people who actually want to be around me when i’m down are the people i trust 100% more than people who are only around me/only see me when i’m happy
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